At the LSC we believe that life is amazing even while it is also varied and complicated and full of challenges. Our aim is to help you navigate whatever difficulties you are experiencing in a way that matches what you want from therapy.
Circumstances change all the time and sometimes you need someone alongside you to understand the situation you are in and provide the skills and perspective to help you find a way through current challenges, freeing you to live life in the way you want to rather than be stuck or struggling.
With curiosity and compassion we get to know you and gain an understanding of what is going on for you. We are then able to introduce strategies, skills, ideas and new perspectives to help you manage your situation in a more helpful way. We will laugh and we will cry together, therapy may sometimes feel like hard work, you may feel worse before you feel better but our promise to you is that you leave therapy with skills for life.
Through a series of sessions you will learn about yourself, your challenges yes, but also importantly your many strengths. You will discover how to respond to difficulties in ways that work for you and your situation, according to what is important to you. Inevitably your confidence will grow as you are empowered to manage your circumstances effectively leaving you more time and energy to be enjoying life.
Esther has come to psychotherapy as a later-life career choice. In her 20s she worked in the arts and the film business in London, deciding to study for a post-graduate degree in Psychology with the Open University as a first step towards training as a psychotherapist.
She went on to gain her Post-Graduate Diploma in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy from Oxford University. She has worked for NHS Talking Therapies for more than 12 years. Esther also works supervising and training the next generation of therapists at Oxford University and University College London.
She is currently writing a book about living life to the full which is based on her own life experiences, illustrative case studies from her work and packed with exercises and ideas for the reader to use.
Esther lives in Oxford. She has 3 grown up children. She enjoys wild swimming, food, travel and is passionate about people and their stories.
Qualifications & Training:
Continued professional development including:
Compassion focused therapy (CFT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Mindfulness based CBT, cultural sensitivities, anti-racism, neurodiversity treatment adaptations
Accreditation & Professional Recognition:
BABCP Accredited
IPT UK registration
EMDR Association Member
Therapeutic style
Encouraging, compassionate, energetic, thoughtful and positive. ‘Holding the hope’ until you find your feet with the issues you are facing
Good investment
98% say that treatment exceeded expectations. 96% of patients report significant improvement, the majority of these are also in clinical recovery
Patient-centred
Genuine interest in understanding what is important to you.
Inclusive of all diversity
Patient choice
A range of different therapeutic approaches are available with up-to-date knowledge of clinical appropriateness of each treatment intervention
Commitment to growth
You will leave our sessions in a different place, you will know yourself better, be more able to manage your difficulties and will enjoy life more
Safe place
Sessions are confidential and provide an opportunity to be vulnerable, without judgement and take the risk of doing things differently so that life can change for the better
CBT is an evidence-based therapy proven to be helpful to people experiencing a wide range of emotional difficulties.
Treatment is tools-based. We work with the client to give strategies and tools that help them to break their unhelpful responses to difficult situations. CBT works by changing how a person thinks about situations and how they act. Together we develop more helpful patterns, habits and life skills which help a person to feel better during treatment while also building a tool kit which can be used long after treatment sessions have ended.
EMDR is an unusual treatment therapy because unlike other talking therapies it is a more physical experience for the patient. Your therapist works with you to activate the two sides of your brain using bilateral stimulations (BLS) which may be visual, auditory or through touch. Using sets of BLSs difficult memories are processed. It is a powerful therapy which often has the effect of releasing a person from their difficult (sometimes traumatic memories) and enabling them to recover from problems in their lives which have been triggered by past events or relationships.
For more information visit: www.EMDRassociation.org.uk
IPT is a treatment for depression when an episode of low mood has been triggered by a life event such as bereavement, role transition or a dispute. IPT spends time on developing a shared understanding of a person's story so far and how a person's past may impact on how they are responding to their current situation. Working interpersonally the therapist encourages the client to develop their interpersonal skills and increase their interactions with others whenever this is helpful to improving their mood.
For more information visit: https://www.iptuk.net/about-ipt.html
A wide range of tools and strategies are available from these therapeutic approaches including:
These approaches are interwoven into our therapy work regardless of whether you are receiving a core treatment of CBT, EMDR or IPT.
I've learnt so much about myself and how to manage challenges.
Thank you for helping me to be less hard on myself and enjoy life so much more!
― Sam
Working with my therapist at the
Life Skills Centre has helped me to move on with my life after years of struggling with anxiety, now I'm living not just going through the motions
― James
These sessions have been life changing.
I know I'll be using the approaches you've taught me for the rest of my life
― Natasha
Process:
Contact us with your enquiry and with any questions you have
telephone 07774-687 872
email esther@psychotherapylifeskills.com
We will then arrange an initial 1 hour consultation with you, usually within 5 working days
If you wish to proceed with treatment sessions a regular day and time will be agreed
Treatment delivery:
All sessions are face-to-face either in person at the Life Skills Centre or online via Teams, Zoom or WhatsApp.
We work with you to deliver treatment in a way that suits you and your circumstances.
In our experience there is no significant difference between the way treatment is delivered and treatment effectiveness.
Treatment sessions are 50 mins.
Confidentiality:
All sessions are confidential except if there is a risk to your safety or to the safety of others.
Your information is held securely in line with the General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR) guidelines.
Please ask if you would like to review the Life Skills Centre Privacy Policy.
Contract:
Our contract will be sent to you for review prior to sessions commencing.
The contract includes details of our cancellation policy.
Health Insurance Companies:
We are registered providers for BUPA and WPA.
If you have a health insurance policy please contact your insurers for an authorisation number.
Costs:
Initial one-off consultation: £110
Treatment sessions: £100
Life Skills Centre
The Dairy
4, North Hinksey Village
Oxford
OX2 0NA